Showing posts with label growing up. Show all posts
Showing posts with label growing up. Show all posts

Friday, August 15, 2008

When it's hard to be mad



While sitting here trying to decide what to write, my 2 year old son, who was supposed to be asleep in his crib, walked in. He said, "I'm awake now". Which was, well, quite obvious. I asked if he climbed out of the crib, a skill I'm beginning to think he has learned. He said, "Yes". Then he handed me a child size version of a hard hat, like those worn on construction site, for me to wear. I dutifully put the hat on my head and smiled at my son. He said, "You're pretty". I thanked him, he said "You're welcome", he took back his hat and left the room. It's hard to be mad sometimes.

It reminds me of the other day when I was bringing him in from the car. He wanted to stay out front to play, but since I wasn't going to be out there with him I flung him over my shoulder and started to carry him to the house.

He was protesting so I cajoled, "Peter, just let me love you".

"No, mom, don't love me", he replied angrily.

"Oh, I love you, Peter!" I persisted.

In the same angry sounding voice, each word emphasized, "Mom, I love you, too!"